Akiko901

Do not choose either of them. I'm a Kpop fan as well and I know it's not easy to let go of our fandom.

Talk it out with your boyfriend. Explain to him that you are just a fan and you admire them for their looks and talents. You should not be told on whom to like, right? So explain to him that Kpop makes you happy, being a fan makes you feel important.

However, like you said, you often prioritize Kpop over him. Now that's not right. He's your boyfriend, so you should give him time as well. If he wants to be with you, stay with him. You can fangirl all you want when you're at home without him. Besides, we're not required to be updated all the time. We always have time to catch up on recent happenings.

He's jealous. Make him feel loved. Show him that our Kpop oppas can't replace him in your heart, that he's the one you truly love. If you're watching a Kpop show with him, don't squeal for your bias. Instead, look him in the eyes and tell him, "You're way better than him."

If he's not threatened to be forgotten because of Kpop, he wouldn't mind your fangirling anymore. Maybe he's just scared that you will forget him totally because of your fandom. Now your mission is to assure him that you will never replace him with people you see on TV.

I hope I've been of help. ^_^