No. Don't even think about ending your friendship.
First of all, they are your best friends and surely, you've been through many things together already. You know so much about each other and you value each and everyone of you not just as friends, but family.
In friendship, constant or everyday communication isn't necessary. What's important is that you keep your bond strong by keeping in touch once in a while. Wanna know something? My best friend and I see each other only once or twice a year because we go to different schools in different cities. We just remember not to forget each other, and when we have the chance, we meet and make sure we make the best out of our little time.
Are you going to the same school? If you are, yet different classes, maybe you are just all busy with activities. That happens to me and my closest friends right now. School is a rush and we have our own circle of friends. Remember, the important thing is you reassure each other that you are best friends and no one can change that.
You see, there are worse things that could happen between you guys. Lack of communication is just a little problem. If you couldn't stay strong just because of that, how would you fight obstacles which are more difficult? My point is, don't end your friendship just because of this. You know what can be worse that can lead to the official end of your friendship? Your best friend stealing your boyfriend from you. One of you tricks the other for the sake of earning money. (You know, like selling her to other people.) So be strong and endure the long times without them.
Now, if you think that they are purposefully ignoring you or whatsoever, the best solution is to talk to them and ask them, "Why does it seem like our bond is breaking?" or "Did I do something wrong?". Tell them how it makes you sad that they're not contacting you. And tell them that you're already having doubts about your friendship so they can act on it.
True/Best friends are hard to find. If you find them, don't ever let them go. :)
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