Akiko901

Hi.

This happened to our group before, and I can say that once a silent war starts between friends, it can be awkward for them even after reconciliation. Why? Because it w till always be marked in their minds what the other did, causing whatever misunderstanding they had. They will always remember that.

In your case, she happened to be your best friend, and you didn't talk for three days. Maybe you argued over something serious? Because if it is just a little thing, she could have just brushed it off. Seeing that she did not, and even worse, she seems to have replaced you, your argument might have had a huge impact on her.

The best way to solve conflicts between friends is by talking. Have a conversation, just you and her. Don't go off telling her that she's such a b*tch or what. That will definitely not help. Tell her that you need to talk about something serious and that you need her to listen intently. Tell her how much you value your friendship and that you don't want to lose everything you gained together. Tell her how much it hurts you seeing her with a "new best friend" and ask her why she seems to be so distant to you now. Assure you had already forgotten about your previous argument and tell her that you will not let it ruin the bonds you have.

Tell her how much you want to go back to how you two used to be and how much you long for her company again. Your best friends, right? Therefore you should stick together no matter what, for best friends love you not only for what you have, but also for your weaknesses that give them a room to give you support and be with you through thick and thin.

I wish for the very best in your friendship. ^^